You need to get to a place where you are acting out of strength and not fear.
Yes. I seem to be afraid of everything but there are significant reasons why. There is a very fine line between putting one's foot down and being a b!tch. Sometimes the difference is simply someone's (H's) mood of interpretation. I can't control how he interprets my behavior, I know that but if I'm trying to show 180s, he's not going to see them without a change of his own perspective. That's his choice.
I'm afraid. Yes. So very afraid. I don't want to be but I am. I really am.
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He needs to understand that things are different now that he has made the choices he has made and it isnt your problem if he doesnt get it.
He's. But he doesn't understand. Nothing is different because of his choice except he lives in an apartment and he's more involved in D's life.
I have put down the boundary that he not come into the house when I'm not here.
Otherwise, everything is the same. Exactly the same.
