Yeah, I'm in the house and she left. The same fear of her second guessing everything later is with me too. Mainly its because it's total avoidance of everything for her. She has totally walked away from everything. Even the kids at first. That and she still wants the $$$ of what's left. At least that's what she said initially. I'm not letting down on this, it's part of separation. We've been in the house 10 years, so there's ton of stuff to go through. She's going to have to eventually do it anyway.
I sent her an email back saying I'm not comfortable with the approach she is taking with this. I said if she feels like she doesn't want to do it herself, ,I'll go through the stuff with some she designates. Trying to give her some options.
M:36 W:37 T: 15 M:11 S6 D5 BD: 8/10/14 IDLY: 8/12/14 S: 8/13/14 (she left, I stayed w/ kids) D Mentioned: 10/15/14 Confronted about OM: 10/15/14 EA: ~4/13 PA: ~10/13 She filed: 8/15 (not final)