New Here and need help

[Cathy54]

Thanks for the feedback. I feel so stupid!
This is what I too am leaning toward... I spoke with the counselor that we saw together before Thanksgiving, on my own today. It was supposed to be for her to get my background, but I was a mess and we talked about my present situation." Which [censored]! Counselor was great, supportive and very solution oriented. Gave me options for the time being.
I want to call one of his sisters as i can't talk to my family yet, just to vent a bit as i don't want hi telling them I'm crazy. And to make sure he does the right thing when we break up..... And maybe he will get some help at some point.
I also have email addresses of other women he has contacted relatively recently and I have thought about warning them..... Any feedback here
He was separated when we met and his ex has been dating the same guy longer than we have been dating. Good for her! His ex and I have a mutual, casual on my part, friend. The friend said his ex doesn't hate him... So my guess is she didn't catch him??
Thankfully we have no money intermingled... We are not married and the house is mine. He just has a lot of stuff in my house.. I got rid of some of my furniture to make room for his. I can do without!