Update

[kat727]

I think people pass when the right people are there. Whether that is due to them wanting certain people because they can accept it better or not I don't know.

My grandmother passed with my Grandpa and Aunt there early in the morning. My aunt is a nurse and had to do the difficult care of not having feeding tubes etc. So Grandma knew she was up to it. I cried like crazy when she died even though I knew it was coming. If she had held on longer, more of us would have been there. So she chose the time that was best for her and all of us as well.

I hope Josh doesn't have bad feelings about not being there at her passing. He wasn't meant to be. He was supposed to be there for his Dad though and it sounds as if he is. It all turns out as it should.

blessings, kat