Thank you everyone for your help today. I'll respond to specifics when I get a chance ASAP.

Looks like I'm to be tested on my cool right now...

I put my phone away to not keep checking in. Just saw text from W from half an hour ago. Exactly the time she would have picked up s11 from school.

She says... "Can you call me about s11 please?"

There is a good chance this means she got him from school and he was sad about what is happening. He has already told some of his friends that we are getting divorced. W had no problem with him doing that BTW.

So, here could be her chance to stop him coming on the move to the condo with me.

I'm thinking I should call as now we're friendly... and I know I must follow Starsky's advice to not turn this into a new drama.

But she will give me drama all the same. I do not want to fight her on this. Should I just let S11 stay with her if this then is the case? That means she'll keep the car too.

Thinking of texting her... "In a meeting. What is it?"

Last edited by HPoirot; 12/11/14 08:51 PM.

Me: 44
W: 45
S: 11
Married: 15
Together: 18
BD: 9/29/2014
OM discovered: 10/16/2014
I left her behind: 12/14/2014