I had been trying to figure out if I do anything for W for X-mas while still trying to detach. I came to the conclusion if I am giving gifts that it should be fine if I keep my perspective. That it is something that I do because that is the type of person that I want to be and that I place no expectations on her reaction to said gifts. I do something nice because I do something nice, not because I expect she'll react in any particular way. I think I am doing this in a detached manner...
M-44 W-44 Sons- 11&14 Married- 18 Together- 27 Separation mentioned- 9-29-14 Still together, but not "together" "if you feel rotten and forgotten, remember there'll be better days."
