Wife has left and filed for divorce

[jp787]

First I am glad you are here, it does take a lot to open up and share your demons.

This forum and the people here are beyond amazing.

It is said admitting your faults, being able to see the dark parts of yourself, not living in denial is the biggest step, the hardest. I respectfully disagree. It is the first step, it is a necessary step.

Maybe it is noted as the most important since it has to happen before anything else can change, I do not disagree with that.
What I am saying is, the change, the work, the actions, moving past the talk, at least for me, is the absolute hardest part and most important.

I have seen where you say you are making these changes for yourself, to be a better person. I urge you to really take some time to think about that. Is that true.