Oh sweetie, I'm really sorry for the disappointment you are feeling. Once her soap is finished, you ought to get her attention (go for a drive together or somewhere you won't be interrupted) and ask her what is wrong. Be fully prepared to just listen... encourage her to get whatever she has in there out and try your hardest not to defend yourself... only validate what she says and take notes if you have to so that you can show her how important it is to you that her concerns are addressed. I'm not kidding! I'm completely serious. She is treating you like nothing is wrong and that you're acting strange - this is not acceptable!! By stressing to her that you need to hear what's going on inside of her, she *should* get the message that this is not simply psychobabble clouding your mind.
