H called yesterday and I didn't call by for 2 hours and then sent him a text saying I was busy and didn't have my phone. Trying to GAL and not be so available.
I found out yesterday that his brother got hired so after my son finished talking to H I got on the phone and just said "Hey, I heard your brother got hired, that is so awesome, congrats." I kept it short and sweet, really positive and then ended the convo. H was curt and cold on the phone which was hard for me but I tried to just brush it off.
Was that pursuing behavior too? Are things like this just killing all of the spacing I've been giving him?
I wasn't able to sleep last night thinking I messed up so bad
Me 26 ; H 26 S 8 Married less than a year Bomb 9/15/14 H moves out 9/15/14 H Files 11/21/14 Served D papers 12/31/14
