Busting this Divorce - Moving Out

[HPoirot]

Thank you Claire and rppfl. This is a new phase for me now... I guess going back to nice and supportive like I was at the beginning. It is harder now with what I know about her. It's hard with the way she acts like I'm the bad guy. I dislike her very much right now.

I want to act in the best way now consistent wih my goal. I see this morning I was not thinking about my goal. I missed an opportunity to be better me. I'm trying to think of what better me would do out now. I have trouble getting past her choice right now.

What can I say now that would be healing? How do I lead for myself and s11 right now given how disappointed she says she is? How can I tolerate her saying she's disappointed without hammering her again for getting us here? Am I even asking the right questions?

I haven't eaten yet. I see I can't do that again.

I think I have to let her know how to approach me with her needs now.

I'm at a loss. I can't screw up like this again. Is there a boundary I can set for our interactions on making these decisions and what would be the best way to deliver it? I want to take the high ground and do what's right while showing I'm moving on.

Thank you for your advice. I see I have to get better at handling setbacks.