I got 99 problems but an MLCer ain't one!

[Lifes Twists]

Daring, I am in same boat as you. My lawyer called with the news last night that the divorce agreement has been worked out. He is only working on the agreement for me since he fell flat on follow up. Long and short is that he asked if I would be good with finalizing things in court next week.

My thoughts on things go like this right now. They say on this board time after time that the old marriage is dead and that what comes out will be a new marriage. So, I am seeing the D as a final closure on the old marriage. If we both want something in the future it will be a new marriage.

My hopes are my wife will have to face reality for herself and maybe find out that happiness comes from within. Right now she is still fixated on me being her problem and happiness will be there once she gets rid of me. The funny thing is that she has left so many openings in the divorce agreement to have contact with me. makes me wonder what will happen on her end down the road.

So, try to look at this as the closing off of the old marriage opening the way to new possibilities.