Don't get me wrong, I am HD but not overly HD. I would be perfectly happy with sex 2-3 times a week, with lots of affection daily. I think this makes me about AVERAGE for a man. I know men that have sex even at my age everyday, and if they don't, they REALLY let the wife know about it! I think a lot of men in my situation would have already LEFT their wives, if they only got sex once a month! So I think that I am being VERY reasonable and patient as to what I want in affection and sex.
