Bright - you ask me why I think you are still deeply emotionally attached.
I am not very good at going through a posting quote by quote, but your last posting has comments like
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Originally Posted By: beatrice As you know MLC is a long term and messy thing, and a good proportion of MLCers appear to never wake up to what they have left.
This is always a downer .
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I’m going to use my company benefit and get a consultation with the D attorney to ask all these questions. I’ve been procrastinating on this, because it just makes me more depressed and I have hard time to even setting an appointment.
It is comments like this that cause me to believe that you are still strongly attached to your husband and marriage. I do not mean it critically at all, simply as an observation to be aware of.
I am not counselling you to give up hope - there is still a tiny part of me that hopes my xh wakes up one day - for his own sake and to give his kids some sort of closure, and possibly even closure for me. But the fact is that not all MLCers 'wake up', and we have to live our lives as if they won't, including our financial situation.
