Seriously ggg I could have written that update but seriously less eloquently than you did.

Hence if someone asked me out if I can I'm going to accept. I'm struggling to know why I would want to have him back. He owns none of his chit!

None. He's the innocent victim, a role he played with his first wife and me too.
We deserve better. Much better.

M 46 h54
Both married before
T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
Ms 18 hs 26