I won't give up III

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Thanks job. He contacted the leasing co to explain the situation and that he wasn't in possession of the car. I'm sure he didn't think of letting them repo the car but that would end the problem for sure. Can't they come after him for the remainder of the lease or the buyout amount? It's worth the loss and hit to his credit as far as I'm concerned. We're talking about a nut case that threatened to sue him for whatever it was that she thought she had grounds for. The fact that she is gone and not stealing money from him has saved him over $5K already!

I'm in full agreement and his book tells him exactly that. Run, fast and as far as possible and most important NO CONTACT. Block calls, block or delete emails and texts without looking at them and hang up if they call from an unknown number.

kml, I'm so detached now that it doesn't bother me much. I've gotten into a new rhythm without him around. I have had zero expectations for so long that other than wanting her out of both of our lives for safety reasons, I'm not focused on him when he's not around. That's not to say that I don't care what happens to him but as job said and I told him several months ago when I was in a piSSy mood...you got yourself into this, I know you'll figure out how to get out of it. Funny thing, he repeats that to me every now and then too! He is like a sponge right now. He is so desperate to get out of the funk he's in that he'd try anything that was suggested.

I see a little bit of the new man coming out as well. He's become a little more relaxed and less intense even at work. He says that the fog that he's been in for the last few years is starting to lift. He is convinced that it was because the ow kept him in a constant state of confusion with their social calendar and the drama that she created. He's happy to have the peace and quiet of an empty house more than anything right now.

We've had a few dinner dates or maybe more like social interacting dates leaving the recent drama out of the conversations. He indicated on one occasion that it was a new beginning for us. He's no where near ready for a new beginning but it's nice to hear the words. The odd thing is that I have trained myself not to believe much of what he says so it means very little to me at this point.

I have patience and all the time in the world. Whether he joins me for the next 3+ decades isn't important any longer. I have my family, friends and gardens to keep me busy and content.