Quote: Like Michelle says, to recover a marriage will probably take about as long as 1 month for every month you have been married
I will be nearly 70 by then - the age my parents are now. My parents were both HD and I can remember them often suggesting "early nights" to each other. I don't see much evidence of HD behaviour in them these days though.
Quote: As long as your wife is commited to fixing your marriage, and that means meeting YOUR needs and HER needs cheerfully, then you have to give her the chance, right?
Right, except that all I seem to get are negative vibes. As I see it something has to change at this attempt. My impression is that her strategy is to sit tight until I have gotten over this particular book and things go back to "normal". Except that this time I am more determined and see it as a last chance. If I can just get her into the habit to ML every Friday night without passion sapping negotiations I'm sure we will live happily ever after. Am I being unreasonable CeMar? Am I being unreasonable all you LDW's out there? SD
