Detachment for me is to let go of the outcome and projecting active love. This is a 'pushing' movement from inside to the other person. Upperc not a 'pulling' one. You feel you are holding on to a rope when you are attached, the other is leading, but for me in detachment my higher power is using me to give away and loosen and I am capable of staying still. I project the active love from my tummy, it then is not my need or want but their care and love. The other does not need to know you are doing this but they can sense it.

For me Moving on is like saying goodbye to a favourite restaurant that has changed hands. It's the same building but the food etc is no longer on your menu. You remember the good stuff and release the bad.

Wonka says it better but this is how it feels to me.
Vanilla

Last edited by Vanilla; 12/11/14 12:12 AM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW