So I went to W's place to pick up d17 and s13, not expecting W to be there as she was at the hospital all day for a family member having surgery. But as I entered W was there on the phone speaking to d18. As I am standing there, W mentions that she has a "wild" Friday nite planned (sarcasm was used here.) She was having friends over, she emphasized women friends, for a cookie exchange.

The 'ol Wet was gullible enough to believe W, that she is spending time with women friends, and hoping maybe she is getting better. I want to believe the best in her, and I am sure on Friday nite it really is with her gal pals. But I also know the truth, W continues to date other men, and this won't hurt me any more. It is out of my control.

So I have all 3 local kids at my place tonite, and this is good. D17 is already doing homework, so I don't have much contact with her yet. But enjoying the kids thru the next day is job #1.


Me-54 yrs; W: 50 yrs
4 kids- D: 22,20,19; S:15
"Trial" Divorce: 04/14 - 6/14
Separated: 06/2013- divorced 08/2016

“The strongest of all warriors are these two — Time and Patience.” War and Peace