I have learned this the hardway. It is not a good time to talk about touchy subjects in bed with a tired women. This is the worst time to have serious discussions because both spouses will be GRUMPY. You need to do it earlier , like over dinner at a nice resturant. You want to keep it cival!!!
Also, about the frequency. The effect of lack of sexual frequency has the opposite effect among HD men and LD females. As the frequency for sex declines, the HD mans' desire for sex will INCREASE. For a LD female, as frequency declines, so will her DESIRE for sex. So literally, not having sex will cause the LD women to want it even LESS!!! If she wiches to increase whatever desire she has, she needs to practice sex a lot. Literally, she needs PRACTICE to find what is the BEST way to have sex with the LEAST amount of effort. Think about things that you are not very good at, if you do them often, you build up more confidence in what you are doing and then you won't avoid doing it the next time.
Now, how to convince a ND woman that lots of sex will actually prime her desire pump, and she may actually start wanting sex!
