So, I got call this evening that the attorneys got the message I was not going to take it anymore and they got the issues with the agreement straightened out. Her attorney agreed to everything I wanted and will be presenting it to her once I see the revised draft. Right now the feeling is this part of my journey may be over next week.
I don't plan on giving up on the marriage. I just feel due to my wifes mental illness and her fixation on getting the divorce we need to get this done so she can move beyond it. Maybe she will finally start to heal and come out of the tunnel. I won't be holding my breath. if she comes out then it will be her decision to work on herself and try and catch up to me.
I do expect both of us will suffer some level of depression once it is done. I will have to make sure my daughters keep an eye on their mother once it is completed.
Twisting on Life's Rope Me53 W53 M20 D21 D19 D16 BD 2-2013 D final 1-2015 _________________________ "Dream about tomorrow, Live for today, Learn from yesterday"