Had bad news today W can not get help with housing costs as she is part owner of the house I live in, which means we will have to sell the house as I can not afford to buy her out, I did mention that she could move back in to our house but she said there is No way we will be living together, so that's it nowhere near busted here.

I'm totally going to change tactics now as been her good friend doesn't seem to get me anywhere
From now on no more playing happy family's at her home its going to be pick up the kids and away I go as soon as possible, no more little favours for her, no more financial support than the minimum I have to pay, I'm basically going to move on with my life I'm done with her