Hmmm. What kinds of things is he breaking? Why is that ok with you?

I guess Im confused as to why he is walking around breaking things.

And again, you have a few choices. You can put the stuff away when he comes if it isnt Christmas stuff. You can speak to him about it or you can just go off and do your thing because apparently they are going to get broken anyway.

You do not have to sit there and allow him to come into your home and break stsuff and have no accountability. Thats just craziness.