H: What do you want for Christmas Me: US...YOU H: You know what I'm talking about Me: Yeah..that is all you can give me. If not them I'm cool H: Just tell me something and dont make it difficult Me: Really don't worry about it. I dont need anything..THANK GOD
No reply back from H..crickets
So,,I guess that means I will not be getting US for Christmas.
He made a BIG DEAL out of taking s14 and I to get christmas tree this week, but H does not really enjoy Christmas said it is now too commerical and all about gifts. I think it also brings back sad memories of his childhood and he HATES spending money. But each year since we have been together he buys a real christmas tree. He always buys and receives gifts, but he grumbles the whole time about most of the hoopla.
I almost ask for him to make a decision about our M as my gift but I guess that would not be happening either.
I did already tell him that he knows I enjoy the Holiday's and that this year he would NOT complain the whole time about money and spending. I really dont spend much,,and I ask him to tell me the budget he wants to spend on Sons and grandkids,,we always go in 1/2 and if I want to buy more I will without expecting him to go over the budet he wants to use. But still he wants me to always spend less then I want, and I usually stay within a very close range..its not about the gifts to me its about the love and spending time with family. Really we dont spend much at Christmas.
I dont need a "gift" from him, I need so much more:(
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW
