[123Gwen]

Again Bea is full of wisdom. I do have to admit that I think there does come a tipping point in limboland when staying there can be counter productive. You need to be aware of that caveat otherwise you might not be bitter but you will most definitely be like Rapunzel except you are not trapped in a tower but rather a married like state that is doing you more harm than good.

Just knowing limboland can be dangerous is a good thing but it doesn't mean you have to abandon your stand. Only you know what is in your heart and when you feel ready to take action then you will be strong and confident.