I would say you are like MOST other relationships, your love languae is Physical Touch (Normal for a HD male) and her love language is probably something else, like Quality Time(normal for LD female). Have you read 5 Love Languages yet? This book helps to understand that people have different ways of wanting love. I would say that many women have very different love langauges from their husbands. The trick is to learn how the other spouses wants love given to them. If you give love to your spouse in a love language they do not speak, they basically will be getting no love from you. The only problem I have with this is that I think that "Physical Touch" EASILY has to be the hardest language to learn if you don't already speak it. The book alos has some sugggestions on how to fix a problem relationship. Give it a try!
