Thanks! bets - sorry we are sharing this sad time. If you don't mind me asking - why was the funeral delayed? Josh's dad is suggesting holding off for a full week but Josh would have to leave then go back - stressful for him. Agreed WII - he had the idea of driving out on Mon but only told me that night - I told him if he felt he needed to go - to just go. It's still good that he has been there for his dad. Fortunately he talked to his mom on the phone on the weekend so that is good. We are such a mobile society but it really hits home at a time like this that sometimes we need to drop everything & just be there for one another. I sent some Christmas flowers from myself & the kids. I really want to go but not twice.
