Georgia B - I've been thinking about this since you wrote it. I can see it's value and how it would be potentially liberating. I can also see the breakdown in trust (if in fact she is not lying, which is possible). I do fully agree that knowing the truth allows me to efficiently address the problems in the marriage honestly. I appreciate the advice. I'm not sure which way I am going to go yet.
Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015