No problems mate, I look upon it as there's no problem with tracking these things we've identified, in fact they can help on consistent 180 behaviour changes BUT! don't obsess over things you (we all) could have done differently.
Do them differently NOW and moving forward for you and the kids, be the best YOU that's possible and if W comes back that's the ice cream on the cake, anything else will just drive you mad.
Now if only *I* can do that too
Ha, I see my sitch table from Vanilla is peculating around
Take it easy mate.
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015
