I'm so sorry about Josh's mom. It's such a difficult thing, and this time of year to boot. I'm glad you thought about the FB thing. When Dennis passed away last February, we were still making calls to his family when his friends started the FB frenzy postings. His niece found out via FB, and there were lots of hurt feelings.
I'll keep all of you in my prayers. I'm heading back to VA tomorrow for my brother's funeral as well. I'm sorry to have company in my boat.
Hugs-Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."