Don't be too hard on CeMar, Corri. He thinks the same way as I do sometimes but he writes it all down. He and I both have an anger problem - we have many wasted years behind us and feel a lot of resentment. Steve Bidulph in his book "Manhood" describes the middle part of marriage as "The long dark night of the penis". I cried all the way through that book. We have to do a lot of 180 degree U turns but it is really dark and our lights are dim at the moment. It's hard to see the road ahead.
SD