Yes-- d is off from school and her babysitter (who is only part time nowadays anyway) will also be on vacation.
KGirl-- I see your point about flexibility a slippery slope. There will always have to be room for flexibility. I don't think that having a default schedule precludes that. It does give us something to work from.. and it gives us the right to say, calmly, "I'm sorry, that doesn't work for me".
What is so frustrating right now is that the communication and conflict resolution skills we still need to improve in order to have a good co-parenting relationship are the same ones we'd need to have a happy marriage. I'm annoyed that I have to do that work (with H) anyway without the benefit of feeling like it was leading to a repaired marriage. I have some resentment about that I think. Why? It makes perfect sense to me why I have resentment, and also makes perfect sense why I need to let it go.
Back to square one and a beginner's mindset I guess
More happened this morning but I just dont have time to write now.
