You are right he is definitely trying to rattle me.
Even though I think his gf is a clueless b!txh I am trying to accept that this is my life now and this is my kids life. I hate it but I have to make it work somehow.
I also have begun to prepare myself mentally that one day my ex will marry this woman and prob have children with her. And that my kids will have siblings one day that are not my children - that really crushes me.
But I just am so thankful that I have such smart and beautiful girls. That my finances are good. So excited and grateful to be able to take my kids to Disney this January. I can't focus on the bad stuff - there is too much good stuff.
I'll email him that I can bring them so that it times out for when he is getting home but that I don't feel comfortable leavibg them with his gf. Should I add that I had asked him months ago to meet with Jess and him without the kids to have coffee so I could get used to her but he refused. Saying again meeting with her in a neutral environment would help me deal with these other meetings.
Thanks mighty, bea and klm for understanding the pain
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13