Yes, but how?? I made it clear that wasn't an option for me, but I can't, nor do I want to, police his every move. If I can't trust him, I am done. So I guess I am asking how do I trust him when obviously I shouldn't have been for most of our relationship. Mit just makes no sense to me that he has been (seemed??) so committed to this relationship ( I am the sig other to his work friends and family, I am on his life insurance, etc, etc.) but he has been carrying on behind my back and now that I know he is pulling away. He even said he might spend the holidays elsewhere blaming it on my daughter being home from college for the holiday...which she always is and it has never stopped him from being here before. I don't want to drag this out, nor do I want to push him away....
M 54 H 57 M 5 yrs ago My D24, D21 His S30, S27, D21
