Married young, W had affair w/ coworker Pt.2

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I've got GALing down pretty good now. I have a new workout routine, a solid group of friends, a pastor I meet with regularly, and a couple of fun trips planned with friends.

Detachment is harder for me. I feel like I'm afraid of moving on. W and I have such a history together that includes a big network of many mutual friends, our families go to the same church back at home, our moms are friends, etc. I guess I never imagined our M ending so in some sense I am in denial that this is actually happening.

What is the difference between detachment and moving on completely? I feel like I need to find that answer right now.

I hear you Wonka, she is running around doing her thing and I'm the one holding onto the rope being dragged behind her. I'll be thinking on this today.