edz is right and both he and gg have both had experience of the calling it out and the results. W is wrapped up in the Xmas bad behaviour camaraderie, drink, parties and jollies. Things always appear differently in the January street light when the tawdry birds roost. The piper has to be paid for this eventually.
I would look at this way, it's a 180, what you did wasn't working so do something different and STFU.
Vanilla is thinking of a 180 the other way, at some stage probably in early Apr 2015, Vanilla will be doing a HP and moving on with her life to get dark peace. Trust me, you guys and the vets will have to help with the script when I do. We do what works for us.
Jim, in the meanwhile it's set the boundaries and detach. GAL, GAL, GAL. A little Vanilla pod is in order, let it pass Jim, ain't worth the upset at this time of year, it won't change W so have an Xmas without drama. W knows where you stand on the issues stop repeating yourself. The worse her behaviour then the more the shock to her system at realisation. Guilt is about behaviour but the last thing that is needed is shame about who she is.
Keep family out of it as far as possible, it makes it all the harder for W to return as the shame will make her move on.
Let it go, flush ithe bad behaviour where the furry things go.
As for not letting it poke you in the eye, you know the answer. GAL for your sanity.
Vanilla
Last edited by Vanilla; 12/10/1411:45 AM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
