Altering your own behaviour won't make any other person do anything. They do what they do.
Core DB seems to me about altering ones own behaviour; that isn't controlling.
What you appear to be doing is appeasing, chasing and failing to run your own life. This is likely to have a short term effect but won't bring H back into an R. Neither will trying to make H jealous. Having an EA/PA of your own would be very destructive.
Can you review Sandis guidelines referred to as 37 rules at the start of the newcomers forum and let me know if you are applying them?
I still believe you need help with H drinking from Al anon. Vanilla
Last edited by Vanilla; 12/10/1409:46 AM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
