Epic fail for me tonight. H called to talk about the timeshare thing mentioned above.
Last several days have been very busy with holidays, work, and my preparing to leave on a month long vacation out of the country. To say I have been stressed would be an understatement. Do to that, I've purposely have tried to be unavailable to H to discuss things like division of assets among other things. He corned me tonight under the notion that the conversation was to be about a joint bill. I tried to verbally communicate the timeshare stuff based on Wonka's suggestion above.... Well... I let him push my buttons, and next thing I know I am attacking him and wishing that I could retract that sentence the split second I said it! And all went down hill from there.
Like most, our biggest issue is communication. For me this past year it's been him not listening or his selective memory about what took place or was said in previous conversations..... I KNOW that this is a trigger area for me and have been trying to work on it. BUT tonight .... Well my restraint was non existent sadly. Wish I could take all the conversation tonight back
M: 43 H: 42 Married 19, Together 25; no kids EA/OW 1 January 2012 EA/OW 2 Sept 2013 DB: 10/2013 Separated 12/7/2013 Divorce papers served 11/21/2014
