Thanks for responding K-girl. We never set actual dates. I requested one change from the agreement (12/27), to accommodate my parents... but i can change that if necessary.
Did I mention the part where I took our D for most of my two vacation days so far this fall, And Friday morning to Sunday 4:00 of thanksgiving weekend? And now he basically wants me to take nearly another whole week. (He said he could do Monday until 4:00. I guess that is his compromise).