Ok, I'm a knuckle-head. I just snooped my W's dating profile - yes, she is still on at least 2 dating websites.

Here, I just posted for someone else that to snoop is only inflicting pain on yourself. And then I do this.

A couple of interesting notes about her dating profile:

- W now lists herself as "separated" rather than single;

- Her current OM (if he is even around any more) must not be so special as she has not given up up the dating sites for him. Of course, what's that say about me as it's me that she is married to;

- The one hard piece of info on her profile. She freely speaks about sex. And her great line about sex, she believes before buying the car, she "needs to test drive it first." Ughhhh!


Me-54 yrs; W: 50 yrs
4 kids- D: 22,20,19; S:15
"Trial" Divorce: 04/14 - 6/14
Separated: 06/2013- divorced 08/2016

“The strongest of all warriors are these two — Time and Patience.” War and Peace