Corrie - I like your style. You may be LD but you are also HM (Highly Motivated). My H is ND and NM. I left an interesting insight to HDs on your "I need some advice" thread. CeMar - You are the King of the HDs. I feel the same pain as you, I agree with your opinions especially regarding DESIRE but CeMar, not in a million years will my H ever initiate sex every day even for one week. She never initiated even when she was desperate for a baby.