Unfortunately the change I am going to describe only works when the ND spouse does it. Anyway, I heard this on Dr. Laura the other day, a LD woman called in to complain that the husband wanted her to initiate more and she was never given the chance to initiate since the hubby was trying everyday. Solution? Dr. Laura told this lady that when men get rejected, then they will just try harder, and harder, and HARDER each of the following times, and these will times will come closer together. So to FIX this problem, the LD spouse must flat out initiate sex EVERYDAY for several weeks, and guess what, the MAN will have his needs met and will stop trying so hard to initiate with the women. After this the sex can drop off a little, to a frequency that is acceptable to the man.
