I am going to show you a different way of looking at this:
Originally Posted By: UpperCu
I push because I feel like I'm tied to a rope she is holding and don't like being tugged along.
Your wife doesn't have a rope nor is she holding on to one at all. It is the LBS who is holding on to an imaginary rope to the WAS. The choice is to continue holding on to the rope or dropping it. Detachment and GALing helps a long way in letting go of the rope. This is why we constantly hammer this point to newbies on the importance of GALing.
