10:20am Please accept my apologies for my rantings of last night. Michelle: I'm sorry for the undue criticism. The problem is that I have not READ the book. I have skipped through it agreeing with all the descriptions of me in it. I must spend less time wallowing in self-pity on this forum and actually read and apply the suggestions.
I browsed the divorce orientated section of the forum and now realise that my problems are nothing compared to what they could be. I am going to eradicate all thoughts of finding someone else and concentrate on my family.
A light bulb switched on in my head and I am going to do a 180 on sexual advances. Here's why. We have two beautiful ginger cats and we love them dearly. They are sisters but completely different. Poppy is aloof and haughty. Cherry is loving and giving. This is how W reacts to them. Cherry jumps on her lap, climbs up her jumper rubs her head all over her and tries to lick her face. W waves her arms around and shoos her off. Cherry comes over to me, licks me all over and I give her a delicious full body massage until she is stretched out and purring - We are both HD. Poppy walks across the furniture with her head held high. Everyone is wondering who she will choose to sit on. She steps onto one child's knee then to another, hops over me and Cherry and settles gracefully on W without any fuss and just sits there purring. W's face lights up with pleasure and she strokes her very gently. They are both LD.
Do you see what I am getting at. We HDs are just too in-yer-face. There’s no mystery or anticipation. I am learning…
