Those are two really really positive things... you can see that, right?
And a good example of how one person's change CAN change the dynamic.
Why did no one ever teach us this stuff earlier?!
Yes! I see it! It's HUGE, Claire!
Truth is, and i hate to admit this, but if someone came up to me two years ago and said, "ss, if you change yourself completely, H will follow and things will be better" I would have laughed in your face.