Your h needs to get a security system as well as change the locks on exterior doors as soon as possible.
If that little adventure down MLC way didn't wake him up, nothing will. Maybe now he'll begin to truly focus on his issues and come to his senses and realize he has a wonderful wife that has stood by him through thick and thin.
I would suggest that all of you watch your backs for a while. I don't trust twinkle twat to go away completely for a while. She doesn't strike me as someone that will stay in the shadows for very long w/o creating a ruckus for one final hoorah.
BTW, the reason you couldn't post on your old thread is because your thread had exceeded the 100 posting limit.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.