Hairdog, Believe me 4 years changes to 20 years in a blink of an eye. If I knew after 4 years what it would be like after 20 I would have got out before children arrived. In 1979 at age 20 I had the choice of two women. Both were blonde and sexy looking. One was crazy about me and would have done anything to keep me and the other needed to be chased and courted. Of course the chase is the best bit so I dumped HD blonde and chased LD blonde and I'm still chasing her today. BTW I've seen the statue all these beautiful but LD women are modelled on. It's in Rome and it's called "Angel With a Crown of Thorns".
