Thank you UpperCut and Wonka, and twinmom. You know, you may be right about finding a new counselor. That probably is a big reason why I'm feeling so much anger, because I feel like I'm doing all the work while he is being forgiven and is reaping the benefits of a changed wife. I never really looked at it that way before. My counselor says that at the 3.5 month mark, many people feel the anger and it's very normal. Have you heard that before?
M: 33 H: 45 Married 10 yrs. T: 12 yrs. Kids: 4 yr old and 7 yr old Bomb Drop 8/7/14 OW gone as of 8/21/14