Married young, W had affair w/ coworker Pt.2

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Right. I push because I feel like I'm tied to a rope she is holding and don't like being tugged along. My gut reaction is to push her further away and cut off any control she has to protect myself. I love her and do want to reconcile, but I feel like I'm approaching many of my emotional limits in all this. :-/