Vertex, My never filed a RO against me but, constantly to me and probably her friends and family, kept saying she is afraid of me She stopped saying this once I moved back to the M home because there was no basis for it.
It did keep me at an arm length though and it hurt very much to think my W thought I may harm her. Years back she pushed me and I pushed back during a Drunken(both)argument(I shouldn't have but did)
That, she told me, was the basis of her fear. I flat out told her if that is the way she felt then maybe she should get a RO against me. She hasn't as of yet and it has been 18 months.
Me 47/W 34 T 16 M 13 No kids BD 6/2013 W asked that I move out 6/2013 I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013 separate beds not much talking Served D Complaint 5/2014 W moved out 9/27/2014