Hi pilot, sorry to hear that things with your W have not been improving but it sounds like you are in a good strong place. We have missed you on the boards and I have missed your funny and excellent advice on my situation for sure!
I agree with igit, probably your W will react with something interesting now that you have filed. Be ready for some drama.
I hope that you can turn things around at this 11th hour if that is for the best. It sounds like maybe she still has some growing up to do.